Yesterday and the day before and heck, almost every day since I stopped going to work and began staying home with my kiddos, I’ve been feeling behind. I don’t quite know how the heck I fit it all in before, because I sure as heck am not fitting it all in now.
I also really want to take advantage of being able to be home with our kids which, for me, means getting order into our home and creating a rich warm fun environment for our kids.
Instead, I feel further behind than every before.
“Leave the dishes. Don’t worry about the mess. Focus on your children for they will only be this age once.” These are the messages I hear and I agree with, but…
Can’t I have it all? I was reminded of this poem last night:
I saw a man pursuing the horizon;
Round and round they sped.
I was disturbed at this;
I accosted the man.
“It is futile,” I said,
“You can never —”
“You lie,” he cried,
And ran on.
– Stephen Crane
I’m not great at keeping the house clean. A trail of mess appears in my wake. My husband and children are not any better.
I love new ideas and the prospect of new projects, but it’s difficult to carry things out with two curious kiddos.
I love getting involved in projects with my kids and having fun exploring the world with them and trying new things which sometimes brings more mess into the home.
I feel better when my home is picked up and clean (not super sterile clean, just looking clean). I’m more creative when things feel more spacious. I took to heart Maria Montessori’s messages about beautiful environments when I was a student in a Montessori school and loved every second of it.
I know my children are only going to be this wonderful delightful age just once, but can’t I still have it all?
April is coming to an end mighty darn fast. I’ve managed to accomplish a few of the goals I set out for myself like “spend lots of time outside” and “read a book”, but I also managed to forget the ones that irk me the most.
IF ONLY I could get five solid hours to work on the paper tasks that need to get done and the Christmas cards (from December 2011) that I want to finish. IF ONLY!
But the weather has been so beautiful and friends have been so bountiful and kids have been so fun that the month has just flown by. Ay ay ay – This week, though I have big hopes and plans. Big Hopes. Alas…
The weather is sunny.
The puddles are fun.
The roads are clear for walking.
The tundra is starting to show.
But I still keep thinking that I’ll fit it all in. I’ll whip the house into shape bright and early and then take the kids out and then somehow fit all the rest into the day in the afternoon and evening while my kids laugh and play around me.
It hasn’t worked out yet.
But I still have hopes. One week left of April. I’m focused. I’m gonna try to do it all!